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So, they impose on it a style and design, progress, aims, and paths. This is certainly magical pondering.
“If only he tried out tricky ample”, “If he only actually desired to recover”, “If only we discovered the appropriate therapy”, “If only his defences have been down”, “There MUST be a little something great and worthy under the hideous facade”, “NO ONE can be that evil and harmful”, “He must have intended it differently” “God, or the next remaining, or perhaps the spirit, or perhaps the soul is the answer and the answer to our prayers”.
The Pollyanna defences 인스타 좋아요 늘리기 of the abused are aimed versus the emerging and Awful comprehending that people are specks of dust in a very indifferent universe, the playthings of evil and sadistic forces, of which the narcissist is one – along with versus the unbearable realization that their pain implies practically nothing to any one but on their own. Absolutely nothing in anyway. It's got all been in vain.
The narcissist holds these kinds of considering in barely undisguised contempt. To him, it is a sign of weakness, the scent of prey, a gaping vulnerability. He takes advantage of and abuses this human will need for order, superior, and this means – as he makes use of and abuses all other human needs. Gullibility, selective blindness, malignant optimism – they're the weapons of the beast. As well as the abused are difficult at work to deliver it with its arsenal.